Before anybody starts commenting about Azealia or Lauryn, let me say that I’ve known what self hate looks like long before Banks found bleach cream and bullied 13-year-old girls on Twitter and we all heard Unplugged and the homophobia and illusion...
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#AndSoItGoes #Itsnotjustabeyoncesong – Hi. My name’s khoLi. And for years I’ve been a liar, a people pleaser, and an all-around victim of a neveerending #desire to be loved. I say this, because not wanting to hurt folks has constantly kept me in...
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During our last workout, I was explaining the ways in which #unconditionalove - the experience, understanding, and belief in it - often registers differently for #queerwomen because of the traumas we experience when having to constantly negotiate our...
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Seeing my name and words in print never fails to brighten my day. Knowing that I got to work with @eastbayexpress’ @sara.baku (my favorite #editor … and it’s hard for me as an editor to admit that about another editor), and write about the amazing...
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#MOOD – #jasminroberts “Black Man, White House”

blackgirlgradschool:
“ Carter Mathes, Cheryl Wall, Evie Shockley (left to right)
Brent Edwards (unpictured)
This is my dissertation committee. They happen to be three (four if you count Brent) of the most intelligent, most emotionally available and...
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coldsuggestion:

A man unrequitedly in love will stand outside your home and knock, throw, kick, holler, relentless in pursuit. Foreign to the idea of a space he is unwelcome in. A woman unrequitedly in love will sit. She’s far away from your house. She knows it’s not for her. She will wait, she has gifts prepared if she is ever invited in. She has herself prepared if she’s not.

(via blueklectic)

affectionsuggestion:

Concept: You love me. We aren’t afraid of hurting each other. It’s warm outside and we have a dog. We can be honest and free and play in the river. Things aren’t perfect, but they seem like they are because we’re both finally happy.

Sometimes life is really very hard. And you’re misunderstood. And you misunderstand. And you feel hurt. And alone. And you may worry. But you can also trust. And if you do so, you might get through another day knowing you’ve shown up, as asked, or as...
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when it’s 1 something am and you’re randomly awakened by some sound you still haven’t figured out yet.
and then it’s 2 something am so you decide, like the old black grandmother you endeavor to be, your old black grandmother, to put the baby...
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